in tv dramas, when the husband has a mistress outside, the wife would be very upset and the family would hate him.
but in reality, husbands having mistresses outside are so common, it becomes not so much of a wrongdoing.
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usually when the family has financial difficulties, the children take up jobs to help ease the burden on the parents.
but in reality, it's so difficult to handle everything.
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what is responsibility?
to do what you think you have to do?
or to do what others expect you to do?
sometimes, people are selfish, irresponsible.
yet, this does not mean that they are bad.
we still love them, and respect them.
perhaps, this is but one of the ironies in life.
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i really dont like him to drink.
pls dont let him get too drunk.
